I have a great passion for reading books that depict children's bitter experiences. Maybe I subscribe to the belief of American psychologist Erik Fromm that "to understand children, we, adults, need to try to think like a child again." Sadly, not all adults are cognizant of this truth. That's precisely why the main objective of literature is to educate people about life, primarily about the life of children. I have perused several books about children. I can never forget Angela's Ashes by Frank McCourt (5 stars), The Butcher's Boy by Patrick McCabe (3 stars), Torey Hayden's books such as The Innocent Child and its sequel The Tiger's Child (I was so lenient then that I gave both 5 stars on Good Reads). I also wept over the classic books like Charles Dickens' Oliver Twist and David Copperfield. Even Beloved by Toni Morrison, one of my favorite fictional writers, although the character is a young teenager who gives an eerie feeling, it still punched my chest.
For local books, one is Connecting the Dots by Gojo Cruz (5 stars) which completely charmed me. (laughs) Such books are all centered around the same theme: human cruelty towards children, perhaps out of ignorance.
This book by Roald Dahl is one of the above-mentioned books. It may be designed to make readers laugh. And indeed, I did. However, the real essence of this book, as Dahl himself admitted at the end of the story, is his miserable experiences as a student at the hands of his school headmasters, teachers, and matrons. (Or to put it more bluntly, under the rotten educational system in Britain at that time) Dahl recounted how he was such a poor and innocent child. He was a prototype of the educational upbringing of that era. He had been beaten numerous times. So had his classmates. He had been humiliated and treated unjustly. So had his classmates. Admittedly, I was completely engrossed in his stories. If I had been his classmate at that time, I would have been so rebellious that I might have been expelled. (laughs) So, the title of this book, Boys: Tales of Childhood, is very fitting for all the stories.
I have always desired to be an active advocate for children's rights, especially for their education. Like Dahl, I was also a victim of incorrect education from teachers who might have been ignorant of child psychology. As a teacher now, I firmly believe in teaching students based on their individuality.
The wonderful thing about this book is that Roald Dahl was still able to make us laugh despite those underlying ill feelings. He was like a friend I had just made, sharing his Thomas-Sawyer-like stories. The atmosphere he created was so amicable that I felt sympathy for him. Moreover, reading it was very easy compared to other autobiographies or novels about children that require a higher level of thinking. He narrated his stories age by age, and every sentence is well-written. Since it is a children's book, I hope young readers can draw precious lessons from it. And I don't think it should be banned from the hands of young readers, just like what happened to his Charlie and the Chocolate Factory which received negative criticism. Shame on their distorted realities! ^^
Roald Dahl said in his preface that an autobiography for him is full of all kinds of boring details. If I take his words seriously, what he meant to say, I believe, is similar to what the famous American writer William Arthur Ward said:
"The adventure of life is to learn. The purpose of life is to grow. The nature of life is to change. The challenge of life is to overcome. The essence of life is to care. The opportunity of life is to serve. The secret of life is to dare. The spice of life is to befriend. The beauty of life is to give."
Yippee! ^^