A truly astonishing and rather unusual story, even more so, it seems almost unreal. I just can't envision this place called "Here" or fully understand the events that unfold within the book. This book simply didn't sit well with me.
It's as if the author has created a world that is so far removed from my own experience and perception. The descriptions are vivid, yet they fail to draw me in and make me believe in the authenticity of the story. Maybe it's because the concepts presented are too abstract or the pacing is off.
Whatever the reason, I find myself struggling to connect with the narrative. I keep turning the pages, hoping for a breakthrough, but it never quite comes. In the end, I'm left with a sense of disappointment and a feeling that this book just wasn't for me.
The loss of our belongings often occurs due to forgetting parts of our memories. However, sometimes we lose more important things than our possessions, such as a caress, a fragrance, a person's face, or the precious voices of our loved ones. People don't deliberately forget their memories. Of course, sometimes we prefer to forget. But it's impossible to keep everything in our minds, and it doesn't matter how hard we try to hold on.
Sometimes people disappear right in front of our eyes. Sometimes, even though we are always in front of others, we disappear and are found again. Sometimes, we can't even find ourselves, which is exactly when we become oblivious to ourselves.
After losing a classmate from childhood (twenty years before the start of the story), a person becomes obsessed with finding the lost items. This obsession causes him to gradually lose his family and friends. They also lose him after a while.
Note: There was sadness in the story. The fictional feelings about the land of "here," the sense of loss, forgetting, and being forgotten were vividly expressed. Families who, after several years, still hoped that their lost ones would return and kept the light in the courtyard of their house on until their lost ones found their way back. Especially the feelings of the father and his mother. A mother who forgot her son's laughter after years. And the sadness that the father felt from this forgetfulness.
Did the breech of the patient/therapist relationship bother anyone else? This is a question that lingers in my mind. The dynamic between the patient and the therapist is crucial for a successful therapeutic process. When there is a breech, it can have significant implications. In this case, Helene comes off as bossy and pushy. This kind of behavior might make some people uncomfortable. However, Sandy seems to be drawn to her. Why is that? Is it because Sandy is desperate for help and is willing to overlook Helene's flaws? Or is there something else going on? I'm not sure. While this story wasn't my favorite, I did read the whole thing. It kept my interest, even though I had my reservations about some of the characters and their actions.