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*Triggers: Abortion & Religion
Okay, for starters I thought this book would be pretty bad, because of some reviews I had seen, I guess a mistake on my part. Instead, I'll learn to read the book first, (or die trying lol) and then form my opnion, and compare it to what others have to say.
Characters: I think the characters were well developed. Though a little more storyline and depth could've been given to Dynah (since she was the main character) I believe she was still a good heroine. At first glance, she seems like your average Christian girl, loves the Lord, the church, and other people; but things change real quick, for good and bad. I liked how her internal thoughts were shown throughout the book, and how it took her a while to grapple with the idea that God allowed such a horrdenous act to happen to her. (Something I still wrestle with at times) I didn't like how she acted though in certain situations, and how because of her "upbringing" she couldn't stand up for herself, especially in front of male figures, nuh uh. God knows all that would've come from my mouth, but then again everyone handles situations differently. Ethan, I didn't really like him at all. Regardless of the fact that he was a "Christian", from the start of the book something didn't sit right with me about the guy, especially since he already "knew" (because God told him *insert rolling eyes emoji*) that Dynah would be his wife as soon as he saw her. That doesn't sound like God's message, more like his fast paced assumption (a rant for another day with the "God told me" messages, I'm not saying God can't speak, I know He can but often times people speak manipulating messages from this phrase) in addition, fueled with a hint of lust. There has been situations where God can reveal to you your future spouse, at a glance but this should be with extreme caution, because our hearts desires get in the way at times. I liked how Ms. Francine showed that not all Christians are "good" and Ethan was that example. He was a snake in disguise, and when he said wanted to kill the rapist, he was just mad that the man (who raped Dynah) had messed up his "perfect" future plans. He didn't like Dynah anymore, all because she had been defiled and wasn't his "pretty, perfect virgin" please. He was the Christian to be all talk, but no action. The same with the Pastor of NLC and the Dean himself, they did not have the right approach to things. I'm glad Dynah called of the engagement, because Ethan was not someone she should marry, because his love had strings attached, yet he proudly professed of a Love that didn't. (Make it make sense my dude.) I really liked the minor characters like Mr. Packard, the man and waitress she met in the middle of nowhere (to me) Cynthia, Jim, Brenda, etc. Okay next portion.
Plot: The middle was a bit bogging and hard to read, maybe because of how different storylines came into play, from the past of Dynah's mother (Hannah) and how she had an abortion, and how it came back to haunt her, or how her own mother (Evie) had an abortion because of a underlying health issue and how it plagued their family, because it had all been buried. And then Dr. James (Jim) perpsective and how desensitized he felt from how much abortions he performed, and how his wife stil saw him through. (Spoiler: He comes to the faith, and the way it happened was incredibly beautiful! Saved by the girl he was going to perform an abortion on, he eventually uses his skill and passion in women's health to bring life, instead of taking it away.)
Romance: I knew from the start, that with how Joe interacted with Dynah he would be the husband, regardless of how long it took. His character was a vital one, and I wish there was more dedication and development for his character. His background was nothing like Ethan's and they looked nothing alike either. Growing up with being involved with drugs, and gangs he came to Christ later in his life and the change was evident, though his appearance may had not seemed the most "Christian". Again, this is why we shouldn't have stereotypes. *insert upside down smiley emoji* He was extremely patient with Dynah, and empathized with her, taking his time has she dealt with the trauma from her rape. Although he hadn't been in support of her having an abortion, he wasn't pushy though he was firm and he also lived out his "pro-life" views by being there for Dynah, ready to take care of her regardless of how her baby came to be. HE did what we as Christians, I believe are supposed to do.
Applauses: I've said a lot of good things. I'll try to be positive with the character of Ethan, and in a way with how preachy he was it gives a lesson for us Christians, and how we should handle sensitive situations, because it's something I've done in the past. Instead of trying to find the right words to comfort someone, sometimes our presence can suffice, and we should always be gentle with our words, because they can come out tone deaf even if that isn't the intention, and I believe Joe was a really good example of that.
Criticsms: Maybe a bit of an overdose with the recitations of Scripture? I think another plot twist with Ehtan's life would have been fun. The epilogue was a bit extra, not really necessary.
Overall, this book was really good imo. I enjoyed it, obviously since I read it so fast. I really like the message of how God can redeem our situations, no matter how bad they are and something good can truly come out of it. It also humbled me towards the pro-choice view and to be open-minded. But, I still believe all lfie should be given a chance. And I thin Christians should be ready to leave the comforts of their world, and go out of their way to help those who are contemplating abortion. We shouldn't just be pro-birth, but pro-life, if that's our view. :)
Okay, for starters I thought this book would be pretty bad, because of some reviews I had seen, I guess a mistake on my part. Instead, I'll learn to read the book first, (or die trying lol) and then form my opnion, and compare it to what others have to say.
Characters: I think the characters were well developed. Though a little more storyline and depth could've been given to Dynah (since she was the main character) I believe she was still a good heroine. At first glance, she seems like your average Christian girl, loves the Lord, the church, and other people; but things change real quick, for good and bad. I liked how her internal thoughts were shown throughout the book, and how it took her a while to grapple with the idea that God allowed such a horrdenous act to happen to her. (Something I still wrestle with at times) I didn't like how she acted though in certain situations, and how because of her "upbringing" she couldn't stand up for herself, especially in front of male figures, nuh uh. God knows all that would've come from my mouth, but then again everyone handles situations differently. Ethan, I didn't really like him at all. Regardless of the fact that he was a "Christian", from the start of the book something didn't sit right with me about the guy, especially since he already "knew" (because God told him *insert rolling eyes emoji*) that Dynah would be his wife as soon as he saw her. That doesn't sound like God's message, more like his fast paced assumption (a rant for another day with the "God told me" messages, I'm not saying God can't speak, I know He can but often times people speak manipulating messages from this phrase) in addition, fueled with a hint of lust. There has been situations where God can reveal to you your future spouse, at a glance but this should be with extreme caution, because our hearts desires get in the way at times. I liked how Ms. Francine showed that not all Christians are "good" and Ethan was that example. He was a snake in disguise, and when he said wanted to kill the rapist, he was just mad that the man (who raped Dynah) had messed up his "perfect" future plans. He didn't like Dynah anymore, all because she had been defiled and wasn't his "pretty, perfect virgin" please. He was the Christian to be all talk, but no action. The same with the Pastor of NLC and the Dean himself, they did not have the right approach to things. I'm glad Dynah called of the engagement, because Ethan was not someone she should marry, because his love had strings attached, yet he proudly professed of a Love that didn't. (Make it make sense my dude.) I really liked the minor characters like Mr. Packard, the man and waitress she met in the middle of nowhere (to me) Cynthia, Jim, Brenda, etc. Okay next portion.
Plot: The middle was a bit bogging and hard to read, maybe because of how different storylines came into play, from the past of Dynah's mother (Hannah) and how she had an abortion, and how it came back to haunt her, or how her own mother (Evie) had an abortion because of a underlying health issue and how it plagued their family, because it had all been buried. And then Dr. James (Jim) perpsective and how desensitized he felt from how much abortions he performed, and how his wife stil saw him through. (Spoiler: He comes to the faith, and the way it happened was incredibly beautiful! Saved by the girl he was going to perform an abortion on, he eventually uses his skill and passion in women's health to bring life, instead of taking it away.)
Romance: I knew from the start, that with how Joe interacted with Dynah he would be the husband, regardless of how long it took. His character was a vital one, and I wish there was more dedication and development for his character. His background was nothing like Ethan's and they looked nothing alike either. Growing up with being involved with drugs, and gangs he came to Christ later in his life and the change was evident, though his appearance may had not seemed the most "Christian". Again, this is why we shouldn't have stereotypes. *insert upside down smiley emoji* He was extremely patient with Dynah, and empathized with her, taking his time has she dealt with the trauma from her rape. Although he hadn't been in support of her having an abortion, he wasn't pushy though he was firm and he also lived out his "pro-life" views by being there for Dynah, ready to take care of her regardless of how her baby came to be. HE did what we as Christians, I believe are supposed to do.
Applauses: I've said a lot of good things. I'll try to be positive with the character of Ethan, and in a way with how preachy he was it gives a lesson for us Christians, and how we should handle sensitive situations, because it's something I've done in the past. Instead of trying to find the right words to comfort someone, sometimes our presence can suffice, and we should always be gentle with our words, because they can come out tone deaf even if that isn't the intention, and I believe Joe was a really good example of that.
Criticsms: Maybe a bit of an overdose with the recitations of Scripture? I think another plot twist with Ehtan's life would have been fun. The epilogue was a bit extra, not really necessary.
Overall, this book was really good imo. I enjoyed it, obviously since I read it so fast. I really like the message of how God can redeem our situations, no matter how bad they are and something good can truly come out of it. It also humbled me towards the pro-choice view and to be open-minded. But, I still believe all lfie should be given a chance. And I thin Christians should be ready to leave the comforts of their world, and go out of their way to help those who are contemplating abortion. We shouldn't just be pro-birth, but pro-life, if that's our view. :)