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This story tore my heart out. Quite appropriately, I finished listening to the audiobook on a frosty winter day following a heavy overnight snowfall. Gazing out at the white landscape from my warm and comfortable place, I pondered this strange tale (which took place in another - a fictitious - winter setting) and grasped for some pearl of wisdom or kernel of truth with which to soothe my heart.
Ethan Frome could have been a contemporary of ours. He entered adulthood optimistically -- with a dream, a goal for his life. His desire to become an engineer was a lofty ambition for a young person from a humble family but (like so many young people today) he had the confidence and the courage to venture beyond the security of his childhood home and begin a program of study in an unfamiliar environment.
Apparently Ethan felt comfortable at the college in Worcester, Massachusetts. He seemed to miss the camaraderie of academia when, after his father's injury in a farm accident, he returned home. We are told (in chapter 4) that --
At Worcester, though he had the name of keeping to himself and not being much of a hand at a good time, he had secretly gloried in being clapped on the back and hailed as "Old Ethe" or "Old Stiff"; and the cessation of such familiarities had increased the chill of his return to Starkfield.
It appears that Ethan had intended to postpone, not abandon, his education. He devised for himself a study of sorts (described in chapter 8) furnished sparsely with bookshelves on the wall, a box-sofa, and a kitchen table for a desk.
So what happened? How did a young man with such hopes and such promise become the "bleak and unapproachable", "stiffened and grizzled" "ruin of a man" that we meet at the beginning and encounter again at the end of the story? And why did the author write such a horrendous tale?
Life presented Ethan with some challenges. Who among us has not experienced that? Most people, at some point, face at least one life crisis which threatens to divert us from chasing our dreams, pursuing our goals. Some of us triumph over those challenges; some are defeated by them. Many of us wonder why this is so. Why was Ethan Frome among the defeated? Is this the question at the core of this story?
Perhaps Ethan Frome received more than his fair share (if there can be a "fair" share) of troubles. Crisis piled upon crisis - his father's injury and subsequent squandering of money; his own struggle to run the farm and saw-mill when his heart was not in it; his mother's mental instability and refusal to speak; the oppressive silence of long winter evenings. The result was a desperate existence.
So was Ethan Frome simply the victim of circumstance? Was there truly no way out? Could he not have turned his life around after his mother's death, sold the farm, "cut his losses", and resumed his studies at Worcester? Only a few years had passed since his student days; he was still a young man with a long life ahead of him.
On the night that he and Mattie walked home from the dance in Starkfield (when Ethan was 28), we are told that
Four or five years earlier he had taken a year's course at a technological college at Worcester, ...
For certain, a great deal had happened in those four or five years but surely young Ethan Frome still had options. What is the point of this story? Was it meant to be a morality tale, intended to illustrate some cliché or other? "Truth or deception" perhaps? Should he have lied to Mr. Hale about his request for an advance on the lumber? Or maybe "love or loyalty"? Should he have eloped with Mattie or was he obliged to remain in a loveless marriage?
It seems to me that the story is about something less cerebral, more primal than moral dilemmas. I believe that it speaks about a basic human need - a need which is felt in the gut, not acknowledged by the brain - the need for social interaction. When, after his mother's funeral, Ethan could have decided to sell the farm and be free to pursue his dreams, he chose instead to marry Zeena. Why? Because
... when he [Ethan] saw her [Zeena] preparing to go away, he was seized with an unreasoning dread of being left alone on the farm; and before he knew what he was doing he had asked her to stay there with him. (chapter 4)
In a moment of weakness -- before he knew what he was doing ...
The paragraph continues --
... He had often thought since that it would not have happened if his mother had died in spring instead of winter.
Ethan Frome could simply not see his way beyond the loneliness of winter to a potentially bright future. His dread of loneliness led him to make an impulsive, irrational choice. Out of the same sense of dread, the same fear, he made a split-second decision to go along with Mattie's "crazy" idea -- with disastrous consequences.
Fear can make people do crazy things. Ethan Frome feared loneliness. Although he was an introvert, the basic human need for social interaction drove him to make rash decisions. There were dire consequences and at the end of the story, at the age of 52, he was still lonely.
Ethan Frome could have been a contemporary of ours. He entered adulthood optimistically -- with a dream, a goal for his life. His desire to become an engineer was a lofty ambition for a young person from a humble family but (like so many young people today) he had the confidence and the courage to venture beyond the security of his childhood home and begin a program of study in an unfamiliar environment.
Apparently Ethan felt comfortable at the college in Worcester, Massachusetts. He seemed to miss the camaraderie of academia when, after his father's injury in a farm accident, he returned home. We are told (in chapter 4) that --
At Worcester, though he had the name of keeping to himself and not being much of a hand at a good time, he had secretly gloried in being clapped on the back and hailed as "Old Ethe" or "Old Stiff"; and the cessation of such familiarities had increased the chill of his return to Starkfield.
It appears that Ethan had intended to postpone, not abandon, his education. He devised for himself a study of sorts (described in chapter 8) furnished sparsely with bookshelves on the wall, a box-sofa, and a kitchen table for a desk.
So what happened? How did a young man with such hopes and such promise become the "bleak and unapproachable", "stiffened and grizzled" "ruin of a man" that we meet at the beginning and encounter again at the end of the story? And why did the author write such a horrendous tale?
Life presented Ethan with some challenges. Who among us has not experienced that? Most people, at some point, face at least one life crisis which threatens to divert us from chasing our dreams, pursuing our goals. Some of us triumph over those challenges; some are defeated by them. Many of us wonder why this is so. Why was Ethan Frome among the defeated? Is this the question at the core of this story?
Perhaps Ethan Frome received more than his fair share (if there can be a "fair" share) of troubles. Crisis piled upon crisis - his father's injury and subsequent squandering of money; his own struggle to run the farm and saw-mill when his heart was not in it; his mother's mental instability and refusal to speak; the oppressive silence of long winter evenings. The result was a desperate existence.
So was Ethan Frome simply the victim of circumstance? Was there truly no way out? Could he not have turned his life around after his mother's death, sold the farm, "cut his losses", and resumed his studies at Worcester? Only a few years had passed since his student days; he was still a young man with a long life ahead of him.
On the night that he and Mattie walked home from the dance in Starkfield (when Ethan was 28), we are told that
Four or five years earlier he had taken a year's course at a technological college at Worcester, ...
For certain, a great deal had happened in those four or five years but surely young Ethan Frome still had options. What is the point of this story? Was it meant to be a morality tale, intended to illustrate some cliché or other? "Truth or deception" perhaps? Should he have lied to Mr. Hale about his request for an advance on the lumber? Or maybe "love or loyalty"? Should he have eloped with Mattie or was he obliged to remain in a loveless marriage?
It seems to me that the story is about something less cerebral, more primal than moral dilemmas. I believe that it speaks about a basic human need - a need which is felt in the gut, not acknowledged by the brain - the need for social interaction. When, after his mother's funeral, Ethan could have decided to sell the farm and be free to pursue his dreams, he chose instead to marry Zeena. Why? Because
... when he [Ethan] saw her [Zeena] preparing to go away, he was seized with an unreasoning dread of being left alone on the farm; and before he knew what he was doing he had asked her to stay there with him. (chapter 4)
In a moment of weakness -- before he knew what he was doing ...
The paragraph continues --
... He had often thought since that it would not have happened if his mother had died in spring instead of winter.
Ethan Frome could simply not see his way beyond the loneliness of winter to a potentially bright future. His dread of loneliness led him to make an impulsive, irrational choice. Out of the same sense of dread, the same fear, he made a split-second decision to go along with Mattie's "crazy" idea -- with disastrous consequences.
Fear can make people do crazy things. Ethan Frome feared loneliness. Although he was an introvert, the basic human need for social interaction drove him to make rash decisions. There were dire consequences and at the end of the story, at the age of 52, he was still lonely.