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This is a phenomenal, insightful, sad book. The author tells a compelling story about cultural differences and how our assumptions about others are so often wrong. When I saw the movie version of this book years ago, it blew me away, and I am still haunted by both the story and the images of the film.
However, having seen the movie first actually affected my ability to immerse myself in the book. It took me a very long time to read this. Sometimes knowing the ending doesn't matter, but for some reason it kept me from racing through the book the way I probably would have otherwise. It wasn't the surprise factor, though. It was because the story is so raw and painful, and I knew just how horribly wrong everything was going to turn out, and I couldn't face that pain. While I was reading, I would find myself cringing in fear at the thought of where things were going.
So I guess that gives you an idea of how compelling the story is. Interestingly, the friend who loaned me the book watched the movie AFTER reading the book, and had a very difficult time with the movie. I wonder if it was something similar to what happened to me, shying away from the pain you know is coming. At any rate, you should definitely read the book or see the movie--just maybe not both.
However, having seen the movie first actually affected my ability to immerse myself in the book. It took me a very long time to read this. Sometimes knowing the ending doesn't matter, but for some reason it kept me from racing through the book the way I probably would have otherwise. It wasn't the surprise factor, though. It was because the story is so raw and painful, and I knew just how horribly wrong everything was going to turn out, and I couldn't face that pain. While I was reading, I would find myself cringing in fear at the thought of where things were going.
So I guess that gives you an idea of how compelling the story is. Interestingly, the friend who loaned me the book watched the movie AFTER reading the book, and had a very difficult time with the movie. I wonder if it was something similar to what happened to me, shying away from the pain you know is coming. At any rate, you should definitely read the book or see the movie--just maybe not both.