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“You say your day is already full to overflowing. How? You actually spend in earning your livelihood - how much? Seven hours, on the average? And in actual sleep, seven? I will add two hours, and be generous. And I will defy you to account to me on the spur of the moment for the other eight hours.”
Guilty as charged.
What this is
This essay/booklet of ~35 pages was first published in the UK in 1908 (two years later in the US). It was aimed at Edwardian men who commuted by train to work in an office, weren’t burdened by many domestic chores when they got home, and wanted to improve themselves and thus be happier. It’s an early example of the self-help genre that mixes the highbrow (Marcus Aurelius, Pascal, and Tchaikovsky) with dry humour and lots of metaphors (a skeleton at a feast, a pilgrimage to Mecca, playing scales on a piano).
Time, not money, is what matters
The core idea is that, as individuals, we focus on budgeting money, but not time, although the latter is more precious.
“If you have time you can obtain money - usually. But… you cannot buy yourself a minute more time than I have.”
Yes… and no. It’s true that people can steal our money but not our daily quota of time. But they can certainly waste our time (though I often manage, unaided), and although we can’t acquire more than 24 hours per day, we can try to increase our lifetime total by healthy living.
Perhaps a better point is that we tend to think of our work hours as “the day”, and so don’t fully value or plan the remainder. Bennett advocates consciously making space in our days to cultivate the mind. Allocating regular time slots isn’t for me, but just being more deliberate and appreciative is a good aim.
Image: Cartoon “time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time” Hmmm… (Source)
Read, but not novels!
“You need not be devoted to the arts, not to literature, in order to live fully.”
I love literary fiction, and I like to think it improves my mind, understanding, and empathy (though enjoyment is my primary motive). However, Bennett is right to say that “literature is not the only well” to slake one's thirst for self-improvement. Learning about other subjects, especially the arts, increases our enjoyment of them.
But I part ways here:
“Good novels never demand any appreciable mental application on the part of the reader.”
I suppose the fiction of the time tended to be more straightforward, but even so…
More positively, he stresses the importance of thinking about what one reads, and after more than a dozen years writing reviews on GR, I know the benefits of doing so.
Sleep less?!
Bennett thinks most people sleep too much, out of a mixture of habit and lack of anything else to do.
“The man who begins to go to bed forty minutes before he opens his bedroom door is bored; that is to say, he is not living.”
He quotes a GP (family doctor) who said “Most people sleep themselves stupid” and suggests going to bed later or rising earlier, to gain an extra hour or two of useful time a day. He assumes seven hours a night (in another chapter), but everything I’ve read lately is about the dangers of too little sleep.
Congruence
Bennett asserts that one’s principles need to align with how one lives, which is why there can be joy in martyrdom. He then extrapolates from the odd premise of sorrowful burglars:
“What leads to the permanent sorrowfulness of burglars is that their principles are contrary to burglary. If they genuinely believed in the moral excellence of burglary, penal servitude would simply mean so many happy years for them.”
Is it still relevant?
I’m not an Edwardian or a man, and before the Covid pandemic forced me to work from home 13 months ago (and counting), I drove myself to and from the office. Nevertheless, I’m a fan of Bennett’s fiction, he writes this in an engaging way, and the general ideas are still valid.
“When you leave your house, concentrate your mind on a subject.” Just one.
“Mind control is the first element of a full existence.” (One’s own mind.)
It’s non-spiritual, and the urge to live in the moment in order to have a meaningful life, rather than merely exist, echoes contemporary mindfulness.
Image: Cartoon: Charlie Brown says, “We only live once, Snoopy”. Snoopy replies, “Wrong! We only die once. We live every day!” (Source)
It’s also pragmatic: setting small targets and allowing for slippage, especially at first. He explicitly warns against believing it can all be fixed by writing an ambitios and detailed timetable.
“I am all for the petty success. A glorious failure leads to nothing; a petty success may lead to a success that is not petty."
Quotes
•t“Philosophers have explained space. They have not explained time. It is the inexplicable raw material of everything. With it, all is possible; without it, nothing. The supply of time is truly a daily miracle… You wake up in the morning, and lo! your purse is magically filled with twenty-four hours of the unmanufactured tissue of the universe of your life!”
•tAfter the evening meal, “you see friends; you potter; you play cards; you flirt with a book; you note that old age is creeping on; you take a stroll; you caress the piano.... By Jove! a quarter past eleven. You then devote quite forty minutes to thinking about going to bed.”
•t“The most important of all perceptions is the continual perception of cause and effect… while it lessens the painfulness of life, adds to life's picturesqueness.”
Further reading
•tThis essay is long out of copyright and is available free, on Gutenberg in various digital formats, HERE.
•tI also recommend Bennett’s fiction, which is always a delight, and is also available free on Gutenberg, HERE. Some novels are humorous while others are more serious, but all those I’ve read have been very enjoyable. I’ve reviewed seven on GR, HERE.
•tFor an old-fashioned approach to using time efficiently, but aimed at women, see Kay Smallshaw's How To Run Your Home Without Help, which I reviewed HERE.
•tFor a rather different and contemporary take on knowing yourself and organising your life and mind, see Mark Hebwood’s Happiness Rules, which I reviewed HERE.
Bonus humour
If work isn’t the purpose of life, what is one’s life’s work? Mitchell and Webb tackled this in a short sketch, “Our Life’s Work”, which you can listen to, HERE. It’s funny, but uncomfortably relatable. Bennett’s essay steers us along a better bath, allocating time to what we care about.
Guilty as charged.
What this is
This essay/booklet of ~35 pages was first published in the UK in 1908 (two years later in the US). It was aimed at Edwardian men who commuted by train to work in an office, weren’t burdened by many domestic chores when they got home, and wanted to improve themselves and thus be happier. It’s an early example of the self-help genre that mixes the highbrow (Marcus Aurelius, Pascal, and Tchaikovsky) with dry humour and lots of metaphors (a skeleton at a feast, a pilgrimage to Mecca, playing scales on a piano).
Time, not money, is what matters
The core idea is that, as individuals, we focus on budgeting money, but not time, although the latter is more precious.
“If you have time you can obtain money - usually. But… you cannot buy yourself a minute more time than I have.”
Yes… and no. It’s true that people can steal our money but not our daily quota of time. But they can certainly waste our time (though I often manage, unaided), and although we can’t acquire more than 24 hours per day, we can try to increase our lifetime total by healthy living.
Perhaps a better point is that we tend to think of our work hours as “the day”, and so don’t fully value or plan the remainder. Bennett advocates consciously making space in our days to cultivate the mind. Allocating regular time slots isn’t for me, but just being more deliberate and appreciative is a good aim.
Image: Cartoon “time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time” Hmmm… (Source)
Read, but not novels!
“You need not be devoted to the arts, not to literature, in order to live fully.”
I love literary fiction, and I like to think it improves my mind, understanding, and empathy (though enjoyment is my primary motive). However, Bennett is right to say that “literature is not the only well” to slake one's thirst for self-improvement. Learning about other subjects, especially the arts, increases our enjoyment of them.
But I part ways here:
“Good novels never demand any appreciable mental application on the part of the reader.”
I suppose the fiction of the time tended to be more straightforward, but even so…
More positively, he stresses the importance of thinking about what one reads, and after more than a dozen years writing reviews on GR, I know the benefits of doing so.
Sleep less?!
Bennett thinks most people sleep too much, out of a mixture of habit and lack of anything else to do.
“The man who begins to go to bed forty minutes before he opens his bedroom door is bored; that is to say, he is not living.”
He quotes a GP (family doctor) who said “Most people sleep themselves stupid” and suggests going to bed later or rising earlier, to gain an extra hour or two of useful time a day. He assumes seven hours a night (in another chapter), but everything I’ve read lately is about the dangers of too little sleep.
Congruence
Bennett asserts that one’s principles need to align with how one lives, which is why there can be joy in martyrdom. He then extrapolates from the odd premise of sorrowful burglars:
“What leads to the permanent sorrowfulness of burglars is that their principles are contrary to burglary. If they genuinely believed in the moral excellence of burglary, penal servitude would simply mean so many happy years for them.”
Is it still relevant?
I’m not an Edwardian or a man, and before the Covid pandemic forced me to work from home 13 months ago (and counting), I drove myself to and from the office. Nevertheless, I’m a fan of Bennett’s fiction, he writes this in an engaging way, and the general ideas are still valid.
“When you leave your house, concentrate your mind on a subject.” Just one.
“Mind control is the first element of a full existence.” (One’s own mind.)
It’s non-spiritual, and the urge to live in the moment in order to have a meaningful life, rather than merely exist, echoes contemporary mindfulness.
Image: Cartoon: Charlie Brown says, “We only live once, Snoopy”. Snoopy replies, “Wrong! We only die once. We live every day!” (Source)
It’s also pragmatic: setting small targets and allowing for slippage, especially at first. He explicitly warns against believing it can all be fixed by writing an ambitios and detailed timetable.
“I am all for the petty success. A glorious failure leads to nothing; a petty success may lead to a success that is not petty."
Quotes
•t“Philosophers have explained space. They have not explained time. It is the inexplicable raw material of everything. With it, all is possible; without it, nothing. The supply of time is truly a daily miracle… You wake up in the morning, and lo! your purse is magically filled with twenty-four hours of the unmanufactured tissue of the universe of your life!”
•tAfter the evening meal, “you see friends; you potter; you play cards; you flirt with a book; you note that old age is creeping on; you take a stroll; you caress the piano.... By Jove! a quarter past eleven. You then devote quite forty minutes to thinking about going to bed.”
•t“The most important of all perceptions is the continual perception of cause and effect… while it lessens the painfulness of life, adds to life's picturesqueness.”
Further reading
•tThis essay is long out of copyright and is available free, on Gutenberg in various digital formats, HERE.
•tI also recommend Bennett’s fiction, which is always a delight, and is also available free on Gutenberg, HERE. Some novels are humorous while others are more serious, but all those I’ve read have been very enjoyable. I’ve reviewed seven on GR, HERE.
•tFor an old-fashioned approach to using time efficiently, but aimed at women, see Kay Smallshaw's How To Run Your Home Without Help, which I reviewed HERE.
•tFor a rather different and contemporary take on knowing yourself and organising your life and mind, see Mark Hebwood’s Happiness Rules, which I reviewed HERE.
Bonus humour
If work isn’t the purpose of life, what is one’s life’s work? Mitchell and Webb tackled this in a short sketch, “Our Life’s Work”, which you can listen to, HERE. It’s funny, but uncomfortably relatable. Bennett’s essay steers us along a better bath, allocating time to what we care about.