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This book took me a while to read. It's loosely about a group of three friends who are in that weird stage of living at the end of their 20s/beginning of their 30s, when life is not going as well as they had planned. Their lives dissect from each other. On the one hand it reminds me of the J.M. Coetze novel I read (Disgrace) in its treatment of middle-aged academics, but on the other hand the characters are so unique and real and inconsistent, just like real people. The story is set in New York, and 9/11 happens near the end of the story, which had an interesting parallel to the events happening to each character. This isn't a book for light reading, but I would definitely recommend it. I feel like I'll continue thinking about the characters after today. And unlike the Picoult, I felt like the ending was well-suited to the rest of the novel. It was heading there the entire time.
A few quotations about reading, relationships, and (bad) writing:
"'That's what it means to be civilized. Novels, history, philosophy, science - the lot. You expose yourself to as much as possible, you absorb it, you forget most of it, but along the way it's changed you.'
'But you don't forget things.'
'Of course I do. Writing helps. When you write about something, when you really think about it, you know it in a different way.'"
"Sometimes pretense was the best you could hope for."
"You'd think the people who love you best could behave a little less selfishly, wouldn't you?... Why can't they behave like you and be genuinely happy for me?"
"It's narcissism, to love a wall and resent it for not loving you back. It's perversity. Love is mutual, it flourishes in reciprocity. You can't have real love without a return of affection - otherwise, it's just obsession and projection."
"...It's a nobler thing to do to write a good book about, say, cheese - a useful, plain-speaking guide to cheese - than another crappy novel."
A few quotations about reading, relationships, and (bad) writing:
"'That's what it means to be civilized. Novels, history, philosophy, science - the lot. You expose yourself to as much as possible, you absorb it, you forget most of it, but along the way it's changed you.'
'But you don't forget things.'
'Of course I do. Writing helps. When you write about something, when you really think about it, you know it in a different way.'"
"Sometimes pretense was the best you could hope for."
"You'd think the people who love you best could behave a little less selfishly, wouldn't you?... Why can't they behave like you and be genuinely happy for me?"
"It's narcissism, to love a wall and resent it for not loving you back. It's perversity. Love is mutual, it flourishes in reciprocity. You can't have real love without a return of affection - otherwise, it's just obsession and projection."
"...It's a nobler thing to do to write a good book about, say, cheese - a useful, plain-speaking guide to cheese - than another crappy novel."