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Pros: excellent source of concentrated information, arranged month by month. Probably the most useful of the books I've read so far.
Cons: I hated reading it every month. Boring, boring, boring, preachy.
And there's an added zinger to families during the pandemic. There are so many "this is the time to ask for help! it takes a village! parents can't do this alone!" sections that I wanted to scream. NO ONE CAN HELP. The best they can do is bring dinner and/or Grubhub cards, because it's not safe to help.
And then add in the repeated admonitions to "take baby out and about! he needs to be meeting new people, getting exposed to new germs, being mentally stimulated with new experiences for his brain to grow!" It's winter in a pandemic, the baby hates the cold, we have nowhere to go and he can't wear a mask. Great to have the continual reminder of the permanent damage this is probably doing to our kid's development! How wonderful to know that babies of his age should be able to wave bye-bye when our kid has not had an opportunity to say goodbye to anyone in months.
ARGH. Hated every minute of it. Yes, I know I'm projecting all my anger at the pandemic onto this book. But ARGH.
...And I nevertheless ordered the sequel for the second year. Because pandemic, and I'm not able to do the usual mom's group thing where I'd assess my kid's progress relative to others. So, books. And lots of crying, because no one is designed to be a fulltime parent every single hour of every single day for an entire year.
Cons: I hated reading it every month. Boring, boring, boring, preachy.
And there's an added zinger to families during the pandemic. There are so many "this is the time to ask for help! it takes a village! parents can't do this alone!" sections that I wanted to scream. NO ONE CAN HELP. The best they can do is bring dinner and/or Grubhub cards, because it's not safe to help.
And then add in the repeated admonitions to "take baby out and about! he needs to be meeting new people, getting exposed to new germs, being mentally stimulated with new experiences for his brain to grow!" It's winter in a pandemic, the baby hates the cold, we have nowhere to go and he can't wear a mask. Great to have the continual reminder of the permanent damage this is probably doing to our kid's development! How wonderful to know that babies of his age should be able to wave bye-bye when our kid has not had an opportunity to say goodbye to anyone in months.
ARGH. Hated every minute of it. Yes, I know I'm projecting all my anger at the pandemic onto this book. But ARGH.
...And I nevertheless ordered the sequel for the second year. Because pandemic, and I'm not able to do the usual mom's group thing where I'd assess my kid's progress relative to others. So, books. And lots of crying, because no one is designed to be a fulltime parent every single hour of every single day for an entire year.