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This has got to be the most verbose and disgusting tale of misogyny in the English language. If there's anything worse, I don't want to know about it.
We have poor little Pip, who is "in love" with Estella just by looking at her, because she's pretty. So he spends the entire rest of the book feeling entitled to her. She never leads him on. She's never even nice to him. So of course she is breaking his heart.
And it's all Miss Havisham's fault that he's obsessed with her and that the feelings are not mutual - because Miss Havisham raised her to be aloof. Apparently if she were raised different, then when Pip fell in love with her by looking at her, she would've been appreciative, and grown up to be his obedient wife.
Reading this, and realizing it's been popular for over a hundred years, I wonder just what the fuck is WRONG with people?
Then I read that this story was based on Dickens' life. He was shunned by some girl, and never got over it. He had no idea what love meant, and how it was different from obsession. He went on to leave his wife after she gave him 10 children, and have an affair with a teenage girl. Thank goodness his lust was reciprocated by that girl child, or we'd have yet another autobiographical novel about a friend-zoning wench.
We have poor little Pip, who is "in love" with Estella just by looking at her, because she's pretty. So he spends the entire rest of the book feeling entitled to her. She never leads him on. She's never even nice to him. So of course she is breaking his heart.
And it's all Miss Havisham's fault that he's obsessed with her and that the feelings are not mutual - because Miss Havisham raised her to be aloof. Apparently if she were raised different, then when Pip fell in love with her by looking at her, she would've been appreciative, and grown up to be his obedient wife.
Reading this, and realizing it's been popular for over a hundred years, I wonder just what the fuck is WRONG with people?
Then I read that this story was based on Dickens' life. He was shunned by some girl, and never got over it. He had no idea what love meant, and how it was different from obsession. He went on to leave his wife after she gave him 10 children, and have an affair with a teenage girl. Thank goodness his lust was reciprocated by that girl child, or we'd have yet another autobiographical novel about a friend-zoning wench.