I think this book gave some really great advice, but it was written by men. I personally think their idea of having casual sex before the commitment conversation is stupid, and most women--especially the ones reading such a book--wouldn't be able to handle the wrong answer after they'd gotten intimate with a new prospect.

I think this book is definitely worth reading if you need tips on how to widen the circle of men you have to choose from, but I think you should definitely keep your pants on until you know how serious he is about you.