It was a truly enjoyable book.

Some of the tips it provided were so hilarious that they could make you burst out laughing.

However, what I really dislike about books of this kind is the assumption they always make. They seem to think that you are constantly on the lookout for a random stranger to develop a relationship with.

But what about those of us who are trying to win over a guy we have known for a considerable period of time, yet he appears to be completely untouchable in the dating world?

I have been desperately seeking a book that can guide me on how to make that particular guy mine.

I even put some of the tips into practice, and they did work on guys I had just met.

Nevertheless, if you are reading this type of book with the intention of catching a guy you've known for a while, it's highly likely that these tips won't be as effective.

It seems that there is a lack of resources specifically tailored to our needs.

There is some really quite ridiculous stuff in here. It's almost unbelievable how absurd some of it can be. However, on the other hand, some of the tips actually managed to make me laugh out loud. It's a strange combination of the absurd and the humorous. The ridiculousness of certain things stands out, yet those unexpected moments of laughter bring a bit of lightness to the overall experience. It's like a rollercoaster ride of emotions, with the ridiculous parts making you raise an eyebrow and the funny tips giving you a moment of pure amusement. Overall, it's an interesting read that keeps you on your toes, never quite sure what you're going to encounter next.

So,

I didn't have the patience to read every single word she wrote, but to be fair, she did offer some really great tips. Among them, my absolute favorite tip was number 23. It said, "Never admit you've slept with more than 5 guys." She further elaborated, "I don't care if the actual number is 25. When he asks, the answer should be 4." This particular tip really cracked me up. It made me think about how sometimes we play these little games in relationships, not necessarily to deceive but maybe to present ourselves in a certain light. I wonder if other people have similar tips or experiences when it comes to dating and relationships. It's always interesting to hear different perspectives and see what works for different people. Maybe I should start keeping a list of my own tips based on my experiences. Who knows, maybe one day I'll write an article just like hers and share my own insights with the world.

I randomly picked up this book at the library. Then, when I discovered that it was written by Giuliana, I immediately decided that I had to read it. For me, I don't listen to advice from just anyone. I need to see the proof, and Giuliana has that. Her advice is extremely practical. Some of it was difficult to hear, but I truly believe that she knows what she's talking about, especially considering that she managed to land Bill Rancic, the winner of The Apprentice.

I really appreciated the fact that she tried to make this book as different as possible from typical "female" self-help books. Instead, she made a genuine effort to look at love and dating from a man's perspective. And it definitely made a lot of sense. Her insights gave me a new way of thinking about relationships and dating. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is looking for practical and useful advice on love and dating.

I truly desired to have a fondness for this book. The reason being that I have a great affection for Giuliana, and I find these self-help dating books to be highly entertaining and enjoyable.

Nevertheless, it turns out that this particular book is not well-written. Moreover, the tips she provides are all centered around deceiving oneself or concealing the truth until a later stage in the relationship. If this is indeed what one is supposed to do in order to make someone like them, then I am officially in a state of depression.

The book was published in 2006 and made references to things like the sidekick phone and AIM. Perhaps these outdated references had an impact on my perception of the book. Oh, and another thing, she also used the word "retard", which I found to be extremely rude and distracting. There was simply no need for such a term to be used.

Overall, despite my initial anticipation, this book failed to meet my expectations due to its poor writing, unethical dating tips, and inappropriate language.

The title of this book really catches one's attention: "Think Like a Guy: How to Lie and Fake Your Way into an Unsuccessful Relationship."

It is understandable that one might not want to share an excessive amount of information during the first few dates. However, it seems that almost all of the author's advice in this book revolves around blatant lying.

Sure, by following such advice, you might manage to attract the guy initially. But the question remains, how solid and lasting can a relationship be that is founded on lies?

Lies have a way of eventually coming to light, and when they do, the foundation of the relationship can crumble.

It is much more advisable to build a relationship based on honesty and authenticity. This way, both parties can truly get to know each other and develop a connection that has the potential to be strong and successful.

Relying on lies and faking it is only a short-term solution that is likely to lead to disappointment and heartbreak in the long run.

Guiliana DePandi's book Think Like a Guy: How to Get a Guy by Thinking Like One (St. Martin's, 2006) is a rather peculiar read.

I reserved it online, so I didn't have to search the aisles to locate it. But here's the thing: can someone please clarify that this book should be classified as humor rather than self-help?

Sure, it's not exactly side-splittingly funny, but in its clumsy and idiotic manner, it seems more suited for the humor section. As a self-help book, it's a complete disaster.

Not only does it paint a demeaning picture of women as money-hungry, servile beings willing to do almost anything to snag the best (or any) man, but it fails in general as well.

At first, DePandi tries to hold back a little. She initially advises women to be "evasive" in dating. However, to correct her hunting analogy, if a hunter misses the deer nine or ten times, what will he do? He'll go in search of another deer.

But it doesn't take long for DePandi to drop the pretense and tell the unfortunate reader what she's truly advocating. On page 31, when she says, "Here's the quick fix: lie," it's not the first time she's recommended lying to get a guy.

Take it from me: when he discovers you've done this, he'll ditch you faster than someone who read Giuliana DePandi's dating advice. (zero)

G is an accomplished published author!

Read her valuable advice carefully. Some of it might actually prove to be effective - after all, she herself is getting married in August!

Also, make sure to take note of the dedication. It holds a special significance and might offer some insights into her journey as an author and a person.

G's experiences and wisdom are sure to inspire and guide you in various aspects of life. Whether it's about writing, relationships, or personal growth, her words carry weight and can make a difference.

So, don't miss out on this opportunity to learn from a talented and successful individual. Open the book, soak in her advice, and see where it takes you.

Who knows, maybe her words will help you achieve your own goals and dreams.

Good luck!

At a friend's insistence, I read a book about settling for Mr. Good Enough last summer.

This summer, I made a different choice. I decided to read a book about snagging Mr. Perfect. What caught my attention was that the book only cost a quarter. I thought to myself, "Well, I really don't have much to lose."

The author, DePandi, has written a how-to-guide that is not only informative but also really funny. It's more like a rule book, a rule book for that complex game called love. And let's face it, love is indeed a game of sorts.

Now, let it be known that I have a strong aversion to "the game," and I despise playing it even more. But as I delved into the book, I found some interesting insights. DePandi boils it down to one thing: the challenge. People are often drawn to what they can't have.

The book offers women 66 tips on being aloof and mysterious. I have to admit, I've already succeeded at two-thirds of them! The majority of the tips in this book are based on common sense. For example, don't doodle your first name with his last name. But there are also some really good tips, like avoiding a purely "textual" relationship. You deserve the phone call and the conversation.

Overall, while I may not be a big fan of "the game," this book has given me some food for thought and a few useful tips on how to approach the search for Mr. Perfect.

MY SUMMARY:

Men are not overly complex beings. By nature, they are hunters. They have no liking for dumb girls or those who come too easily. Men don't let small matters bother them. A guy desires a girl who can enjoy eating at his favorite places. Guys tend to prefer girls with intelligence. They love low-maintenance girls. However, guys are stubborn and don't handle rejection well. They aren't interested in girls who are bored or boring. Guys don't like to console others. Also, they do not have an affinity for shopping. Guys generally have much shorter attention spans. They don't measure a relationship in days, weeks, or months; instead, they only consider years. Guys focus on being independent and enhancing themselves before fully devoting their lives to someone else.

CONCLUSION:

The book contains some useful tips for me, yet the author and I hold different views on most aspects. Firstly, I do not approve of lying. I mean, why would one lie just to be in a relationship? For me, it is always best to tell the truth from the beginning of a relationship and reveal one's flaws. And, if a guy truly loves you, he will accept you despite your imperfections. I don't know why I purchased this book. The title was so captivating at the moment I bought it. Maybe that's the reason.

VERY TRUE!!!!!!!

This simple exclamation holds a profound truth. It implies that what has been stated is not only accurate but also holds great significance.

In our daily lives, we often encounter various statements and ideas. Some of them may seem obvious, while others require further reflection. When we exclaim "VERY TRUE!!!!!!!", it means that we have recognized the essence and validity of a particular concept.

This could be in the context of a conversation, a piece of writing, or even a personal realization. It serves as a powerful affirmation, highlighting the importance of the truth and our agreement with it.

By using this expression, we are not only expressing our own belief but also inviting others to consider and acknowledge the truth as well. It can spark discussions, inspire new perspectives, and lead to a deeper understanding of the world around us.

So, the next time you come across something that you firmly believe to be true, don't hesitate to exclaim "VERY TRUE!!!!!!!". Let your voice be heard and share the truth with others.

I think a more appropriate title for this book might be "How to Win a Guy's Heart by Deceiving Yourself."

If I were to offer suggestions to single women, I would not encourage them to deceive in every aspect.

For instance, one of Giuliana's pieces of advice was to mislead a man about the kind of student you were in high school or college to make yourself seem more intelligent.

However, I'm quite certain that a man will ultimately figure out if you lie about something as significant as your level of intelligence.

Lying may provide short-term benefits, but it can also damage the foundation of a relationship.

It's important for women to be true to themselves and build relationships based on honesty and authenticity.

By presenting their real selves, they are more likely to attract a man who truly appreciates and loves them for who they are.

So, instead of resorting to lies, single girls should focus on enhancing their own qualities and being confident in themselves.

This way, they can establish healthy and lasting relationships.