Reading this wonderful book was an absolute delight. It was as if I was relaxing in a warm bath, and the story just flowed over me, making me feel completely at ease. I had a deep and personal connection with young Laura, through whose eyes we witness most of the tale. It brought back memories of my own childhood when I used to attend big family parties at Collinwood, the home of my great aunt Marie. It was very similar - a beautiful countryside, a big old family house filled with multiple generations of relatives from all over the South. There were so many cousins that it was hard to keep track of them all. The place was a giant cacophony of people, and of course, there was an abundance of food - food, food, food, and more food!
It's true that in Kentucky, we didn't have bayous, Spanish moss, cypress trees, or cotton. However, we did have plenty of green rolling hills, horses, corn, and tobacco. We also had our fair share of eccentric kinfolk, and our family had lived on the same property as prosperous local farmers for an even longer period. Just like in this book, we had a nearby Indian mound, which was a place of magic. Sadly, this world has now vanished. The old Collinwood house burned down, the farm was sold, and perhaps for the better, there is no more tobacco.
Another positive change is that we have thankfully moved beyond the old social structure described in this book. In the world of Delta Wedding, everybody had a fixed place in an unchanging society. Men and women had their traditional gendered roles. The men were in charge, the rich dominated the poor, and the whites lorded it over the blacks. Everybody knew their place. It may have been fine for those at the top, and in Ms. Welty's telling, most of the people who were at the bottom accepted their positions as comfortable and natural. It presents an idyllic picture of the past, but it掩盖了 a lot of disrespect and oppression. It was fine for those in power, okay for those who submitted and accepted their place in the hierarchy, but it's not a place where I would feel comfortable if I could travel back in time. We still have a long way to go in solving these problems today, but at least we are aware of the issues and are making efforts, with some intermittent successes, to address them.