There are passages that vividly描绘 middle-aged dread and the process of coming to terms with the loss of a sense of place. There are also far too many dreadfully dull ruminations on one's "Existence Period" and some rather tragic thoughts regarding parenthood. My favorite characters were the unlikable Joe and Phyllis Markham, Frank's cantankerous and ever-changing home hunters with champagne tastes on a beer budget. I breezed through those pages with great interest. However, when it comes to Frank and his own precise inner dialogue... I would have been perfectly content knowing less about him. Perhaps Ford has proven his point:
The truth is, however, we know little and can find out precious little more about others, even though we stand in their presence, hear their complaints, ride the roller coaster with them, sell them houses, consider the happiness of their children - only in a flash or a gasp or the slam of a car door to see them disappear and be gone forever. Perfect strangers.
A couple of interesting tidbits: Ford, who won a Pulitzer Prize for this book in 1996, spat on Colson Whitehead in 2002, the winner of a Pulitzer in 2017 and 2020, in response to a negative review. This was a rather unclassy move. Also, a Swedish acquaintance of Knausgård's raves about Ford in My Struggle: Book 2, which is where I first became aware of Ford:
He liked talking about books he had enjoyed, the latest of which were by Richard Ford. “They’re fantastic,” he would say. “Have you read them? They’re about a real estate agent, an ordinary man, yes, and his life, so recognizable and normal. Ford captures the whole spirit of America! The American mood, the very pulse of the country!”