As pointed out by my wonderful friend S., here's a story about traveling all the way to Morocco to meet Paul Bowles. I've linked you directly to the meeting part in case you don't have 20 minutes to spare. But if you do, go ahead and listen to the whole thing. Because it's not really about meeting Paul Bowles anyway. It's about being Edgar Oliver, one of those individuals who has decided to be exactly who he is at all times. This is something you can really only do if who you are is so peculiarly strange that camouflage becomes difficult or even impossible. Like, I'm a little weird myself? But I can basically pass for normal, and of course, I do because it is so much easier to go about doing everything when people aren't distracted by one's oddities. When someone is weird, you have to take everything into account. What kind of weirdness does this person exhibit, and how am I going to feel about it? When someone is weird, all bets are off. Will he grope me in a stairwell? Will he offer me peyote, and I'll suddenly have to try to recall whether I'm in favor of peyote or not? If it turns out they're just having a conversation about when Game of Thrones is coming back, you may find it hard to concentrate because you're so busy trying to determine whether they're wonderfully weird or creepily weird and why they are the way they are. It is very challenging, and I've tried being weird a few times (or just been so intoxicated that it amounts to the same thing), and you can tell people are doing all this mental gymnastics. For the rest of us, those of us who can blend in, we generally do so because it's much easier to get around when everyone has a basic understanding of how you might behave in a given situation. You're likely to be somewhat on time, not initiate extremely intense conversations in coffee shops, wear appropriate clothing, not be intoxicated at unexpected times, and be able to pay your share of the bill. These are comforting things to know. Anyway, so the only people who truly let their freak flags fly are those whose freak flags are too large to be tucked away. And here we have Edgar Oliver, somewhat of a NYC theater legend. The moment he speaks and/or moves, you're like, oh, we have a one-of-a-kind on our hands. So, the 20 minutes of this story is really about simply basking in Edgar Oliver being exactly who he is. Which, for those of us who usually pass as normal, is a moving experience. What a difficult and special life he must lead.