Several excerpts from the conversation between John H. Paine and Tobias Wolff (Part Two of "The Thief") are selected.
As we grow older, we gradually understand that living in this world sometimes requires compromise; we pick up things, small pieces of our existence that we must ignore in order to move forward. The process of becoming human is an inevitable negotiation with the world. But this also breeds a sense of longing in our existence, a longing for a state that we imagine we will reach at some point, a state that does not exist. p. 134 of the book
You cannot live in this world with a completely accurate understanding of it. Muddling through, correcting, denying, and straightening are all part of our journey. Lowell said in the quartet: "Man cannot bring a large volume of reality to light." This is true. So what strategies do we employ to build a life in this world on a foundation that is not too difficult for us? This can be regarded as a kind of distortion or a kind of inevitable and necessary adaptation. p. 146 of the book
Regarding books: I am not the first person to say that the printing press itself has been a great and forward step in the field of technology. We still have not left it behind. The book is better than the computer in many ways, in that we can easily flip through it, in terms of its portability and its appeal as an object. The book still has the upper hand in all aspects. I have difficulty reading newspaper articles on the computer screen, let alone a book. p. 151 of the book
"Stories have the power to... suddenly fill us with knowledge about the lives of others and tell us of the importance of these lives in the eyes of those who have led such lives. And in this sense, yes, I write to change people." (The Art of the Start, Lyon and Lowell, 1998) p. 160 of the book
Without the slightest hesitation, I testify that literature has changed me and continues to change me. p. 163 of the book