I firmly believe that all women should read this book so that they can make the most optimal decisions for themselves and their precious babies. However, I would caution that one must read it while "thinking," just as the title implies. In one chapter, Goer refers to respiratory paralysis and cardiac arrest from an epidural occurring "as commonly as 1 in 3,000 cases." Just two chapters later, when discussing repeat cesareans, she states that 4 per 1,000 will have scar ruptures and then says "should this rare event occur..." (On the same page, she then accuses medical professionals of using loaded language.) Now, I surely wouldn't desire either of these complications, but I don't think one can be considered common while a more frequent one can be classified as rare.
My personal opinion is that birth for low-risk mothers is a relatively safe process regardless of what one chooses, whether it be a home birth, an epidural, or something in between. I am firmly against inductions and c-sections unless they are medically necessary, which is extremely rare. I feel that doctors often fail to inform mothers of many of the risks associated with certain procedures, be they rare or common. Women have the right to know what different birth choices will entail and should not be pushed into conforming to the social norms of the day. They should be allowed to make informed decisions for themselves, but this can only be achieved if they are provided with accurate information.
I truly hope that this upcoming birth can be an amazing experience for us and something that we will cherish for a lifetime. I firmly believe that birth is meant to be a beautiful and wonderful occasion. This book can serve as a valuable resource to help you understand some of the options available to you in order to plan the best possible birth for you and your baby.